Identity

"If you want to identify me, ask me not where I live, or what I like to
eat, or how I comb my hair, but ask me what I think I am living for, in
detail, and ask me what I think is keeping me from living fully the thing I
want to live for. Between these two answers you can determine the identity
of any person.

The better answer he has, the more of a person he is."

-Thomas Merton